Why are we so mad at Arnold?

Are we mad because he had a child with another women or because he hid the child or because he cheated on America’s royal sweetheart?  Or all of the above? A bit confusing really since we know that infidelity happens all the time and is responsible for many marriage breakups. And let’s face it  – […]

Mother’s/Step Mother’s Day

Stepfamilies represent nearly 12 per cent of all couples living with children in Canada Mother’s Day – A special day set aside to celebrate our mothers and grandmothers.  On the surface this seems easy enough – buy a card, some flowers and perhaps prepare dinner.  It is also a fun day for the younger children […]

EMOTIONAL CLEAN BREAK IN A DIVORCE – POSSIBLE OR NOT?

Lets face it, divorce sucks!  However, it does not need to define the rest of your life, unless you let it.  We all know that playing the victim is not the best way to move through divorce, yet over and over again that is exactly what happens. Perhaps it is a bit subtler, maybe you […]

Parenting Plans – A Must for Every Parent, Even if you get Along!

When we are faced with a divorce we think about two primary issues, money and kids.  While there is lots of advice about both, our children and parenting seem to be the area that causes the most pain and yet is often left with much less concrete plans. While ending a marriage is hard enough, […]

Divorcing during the Holidays? How not to become a ‘Grinch’

Dreading the Holiday season because you are in the middle of a divorce? Your “thoughts” will determine whether you and your children have a good or bad Holiday season The Holidays are a time for joy and gratitude, but for those in the process of divorce, the season can be very daunting.  The good news […]

Step Children Matter

Step Children Matter What happens to step children when the big D (Divorce) hits? Everyone knows that divorce is more complicated and has potentially harsher consequences when children are involved. We have seen a lot of research and information with regards to the impact of divorce on kids and how the behaviour of their parents […]